To all the beautiful ladies out there, in case you’re wondering why you can’t seem to keep a relationship, listen up;
1. The Loud & Chatty girl: as much as you are a gifted talker or entertainer, you need to be able to draw the line and know how to control yourself. Even though you both play video games and you are more fun than his best buddy, a man still wants a woman who will be a lady on the outside. Don’t be the type whose laughter echoes across 4 blocks or gets everyone wondering if that’s how you laugh or an hyena is around the corner. When both of you go out, no when to contribute and when to withdraw……. Bottom line… Keep all your drama in check.
2. The Nagger / Whiner: this is an old fact. Whether he is married to you or not, no man can stand a woman who whines or nag about everything. It is a huge turn off for them. If you want have something to say, make your point and end it there.. Don’t turn it to chant… Singing it to his ear day and night…… Its your duty to find other creative ways to communicate to him.
3.The girl with no Life: there is nothing as annoying as this. If your every activity, plan or movement is dependent on him, then there is a problem. No man wants a lady who cannot stand on her own. There should be activities you engage in with or without him. The moment he realises that you need to be baby sitted, he will go.
4.The lady with no or little self esteem: this is closely related to point number three. A man wants a woman who is self confident and knows what she wants. You don’t need the approval of others to feel good about yourself
5. The Barbie doll: there’s no 2 way to define someone like this. She is simply plastic and empty headed. These are ladies who are simply vanity personified. They care so much about how they look on the outside yet they are worth nothing in terms of content. A man wants a woman who can look good and still have something up -there
6. Horrible personal hygiene: this one is a no banker. No amount of good looks, expensive cloths or perfume can conceal dirty or unkempt hygiene. If every time you open your mouth you unleash a world of odour;or something can’t stop smelling when people sit close to you; there is trouble.
If you find yourself in any of this category its time for a check up.
Written by Eyitemi Oluwumi